We are on the same page! I’ve always being proud of how “cool and collected” I am. However, I’ve learned that, at times, this quality of mine borders on pathological, because there have been time when expressing anger would’ve been the appropriate response. Since then, I’ve been making a conscious effort of expressing when my feelings have been hurt (especially by men). Some people have not taken this change in me very well and it makes me fucking angry! I am not crazy for expressing how I feel and I’m allowed to feel however I want even if it doesn’t make sense to other people. It totally makes sense to me. As always, I enjoy your essays very much!
We are on the same page! I’ve always being proud of how “cool and collected” I am. However, I’ve learned that, at times, this quality of mine borders on pathological, because there have been time when expressing anger would’ve been the appropriate response. Since then, I’ve been making a conscious effort of expressing when my feelings have been hurt (especially by men). Some people have not taken this change in me very well and it makes me fucking angry! I am not crazy for expressing how I feel and I’m allowed to feel however I want even if it doesn’t make sense to other people. It totally makes sense to me. As always, I enjoy your essays very much!